With Awareness, No Thing Is Not Sacred On The Eternal Never Ending Journey. The Path Home Is Everywhere As We Put Our Own Oxygen Masks On Firstly.
To be nothing
Is to consent to being a simple creature.
This is the place of encounter with
“I AM that I Am.”
When there is no more “me, myself, or mine,”
Only “I AM” remains.
Then the “I” may fall away,
Leaving just the AM. .
by Thomas Keating,
“Out of Nothing”
But what is love?
Love is freedom.
Love does not hurt.
Love is simple.
Love is integrity.
Love is fierce.
Love is honour.
Love is grace.
Love shape shifts and remains undefined.
There is no deceit in love,
No betrayal,
No abandonment,
No enmeshment,
No co-dependence,
No lack or absence.
Present somatic energy is unconsciously absorbed and inherited from exposure to family of origin. That is anyone who has lived in a family.
So any unhealed inter generational wounding, any inherited trauma or disregulation, family of origin emotional distance, coldness or absence, perfectionism, abandonment, rejection or whatever other unconscious conditioning was present whilst growing up, these unconscious "behind the scene" scripts will predominate until cleared.
The situation in the collective to do with obsession with finding a perfect match is a breeding ground for immense misunderstanding and possibly trauma perpetuation.
We attract what we need, not want.
Our unhealed wounds attracts what is unhealed in us.
Like attracts like and we call it a match. Then the relative relating sets in and we blame The Other.
But what is being revealed are our own unconscious, simply now being mirrored through the partner. We can finally see The Self that has been hiding in the dark. Now we have a choice what we do with our Self. What an absolute Blessing.
A return to a whole Self (an inner sacred union, we "marry" our Self) is first realized internally when our own energy polarities are aligned and harmonised into a peaceful neutral stillness. With Self.
Our divergent animus and anima (masculine/feminine, energy not gender) create the still, centred inner space to hold the full spectrum paradox of polarity.
We remain centred and calm (until we're not) and then we choose our responses again
This is all for the individual firstly.
Possibly later with an Other energy as energies align, attract and combine.
We may even label that energy as "Love" if any deeper feeling is mutual.
Some are satisfied with other labels;
boy/girl friend, friend with benefits, fuck buddy, partner, spouse, husband/wife, lover, hired help, maid, pool boy, tinder date, twin flame, beloved, sacred union, marriage, bride, hubby, "what's for dinner darling/dick?" the label list is endless and really does not matter.
What matters is the energy and mutual consent and intention behind the joining. No matter how long that atomical "collision" may be.
One night or One Life.
Often somewhere in between.
The shifting polarity of evolving energy that continues to attract and nourish the union
becomes significant.
Common, ordinary, simple quiet presence
now becomes The Priority.
Listen To What Those Choices Are.
For You. And then Other.
If atoms align and choose the union to grow, evolve, go deeper, then it must be consciously nourished.
By those present choices.
Not drained or drawn from the other, not projected onto another, but graciously received direct from source, your own True Nature, your own supply of Love
Which is replenished and realised by Self Knowledge,
Self Acceptance, Self Awareness, Self Validation, Self Care and includes your best practices that you get to discerningly choose from moment to moment.
Contemplation, solitude, nature, prayer, creativity, meditation, reading, art, simplicity, joy, mischief, music, dancing, friends, animals and fine fresh food and coffee are mine,
what are yours?
If those choices of energy repletion (self care) wane, deplete, shifts or fractures, so to may any union.
With Self.
The inner atoms can no longer stick, the inner energy of aligned and kind relating may shift and fracture, so atoms part and continue on their way.
The love will still be there, but the relating has ceased.
Until you next recalibrate, recharge, restore, the inner energy.
This is the science, the physics and chemistry of universal chaos theory. Free radical atoms floating and roaming in space, attract and join for co-creation.
This is also the same energy of how humans relate.
Energy of mutual alignment to create, be it another life or some other equally beauty filled creation.
Love is Your Bare Deconditioned Centre, a return to zero point consciousness, a return to unconditioned love.
Before messy terms and conditions and veils of external expectation muddied the water,
When we return to a neutral zero point of unconditioned love, there is no longer a neediness or a desire to project or externally control.
We go within to our own centred source.
We return time and again, moment to moment to our own deep, calm, centred presence.
You relax into your own full true nature.
No over whelm.
You are content.
No frantic energy unconsciously leaking onto others.
You are centred.
No projecting or blaming or being bound up in inner confusion.
You are whole,
There is no lack.
You are enough.
Any longing or desire or need for anything external that comes from a place of lack, a needy deficit of external projection or not enough is now removed.
The individual is content with Self.
They realise Joy.
Is a choice.
The individual chooses and moves from a place of fullness, not lack, You are whole by your self, coming From Love, not for love.
You can now easily align with others who also come from this place of a contented calm fullness.
The moment one chooses to descend, address and integrate ("heal" "bring home" or "make room" for) past conditioning and integrate it masterfully by claiming autonomy over own being regardless of what is happening externally, one moves closer to realizing Their Own True Nature.
Their own calm abiding centre.
Which is the Return To Oneness of an aligned inner innocence, a gentle, yet potent, subtle purity and the return to a vital and gracious wholeness. ]
It is the presence of child like joy, awe and wonder and is never childish.
It is the Return To Love.
The Descent.
The Grounding.
The slow sensual full welcome.
The Coming Home.
To One's Self.
Do Not Bypass The Necessary Work of The Descent and Do Not Get Stuck (or fooled) In A Bypass of Premature Ascension.
New Cages Need Not Apply.
There is no set timeline, no arrival date and no formula.
There is no ah ha enlightenment moment for you are already that.
Once we get out of our own way and realise this for our Self.
Each individual simply contemplates their own inner voice and holds space for their own expansion and shedding of layers from past conditioning. Feel, peel, heal and reveal.
Return, remember, reflect,
You are your own best Guru,
listen, trust and never shirk your own responsibility.
The Path Home is Everywhere.
If we listen.
To Self.
The tender re parented echo and call of love.
If we put our own oxygen masks on first.
The Re
turn to self
Be
comes a state of No Thing;
a deep wild solitude,
a still empty silence,
a profound emptiness
where our joyful life paradoxically becomes full and then over flows.
In this return to nothing, the raw unadulterated self, we become everything. This calm abiding inner space gifts the joy and bliss to hold whatever eventuates in each and every moment.
Pure Whole Human Presence.
That potently penetrates all.
To arrive here as whole presence, we simplify, we purge, we shed layers, we stop competing with Self and projecting onto others, we slow down, we thank and bless and forgive our self with compassion and then let grace both find us and enter.
Always Self First.
Then shared with others.
From Love, not for love.
From moment to moment with each breath we can remain present with discerning choices of Self awareness, Self Acceptance and Self Knowledge.
Those who no longer animate their own sense of Self based on external stimuli, past beliefs now out grown, ancient roles or once needed labels, excessive materialistic consumption, other people's relating constructs, external terms and conditions of societal or family of origin influences, media or institutional or employer opinions or expectations that provide outside validation.
You cease THAT reaching.
You cease being swayed or influenced or told what to do or who you are by cults of personality.
Instead you graciously own your shit.
All of it.
And let other's own theirs.
Instead, you realize your own true nature.
If there is still a problem, you are it.
Radical accountability, Radical responsibility.
You become deeply rooted and grounded as unconditioned love.
With Self.
Eventually such simple discerning moment to moment choices brings one closer to feeling and living a fully alive life.
In each and every moment.
Then there are No Limits in this Full Flowing Life Spectrum.
You become the flow. Not simply in it.
You Can Achieve whatever you dream as your True Unadulterated Pure Self.
This is the return to True Nature, the creation.
Which includes you, is you and always has been.
When the fish do not see the water, we know we have arrived.
If we are never content or satisfied and grateful with what we already have, we function from a place of lack, from a not enough.
When you patently already are enough and have enough to live a simple full life.
If we count our blessings and are aware of our moment by moment choice of joy.
Then Be discerning in the deeper messages and energy you allow to reach your unwavering core of True Nature.
This is when you say no to anything that insults your soul or costs you your peace. Simply walk away or say no.
So then your yes aligns and is kind.
To self.
Your yes then means the world.
To Self.
Your yes becomes empowered and potent.
Be resilient to the sales pitch energy espoused in some "healing communities" often disguised as religious, holistic or new age.
Enough cults and religions have sold to countless flocks what is already freely theirs by birth rite. Your own Self knowledge.
You remain your own best guru, trust your Self and validate from within.
Return always to your own centre, trust your own deep over flowing inner well.
Return there often. Self care is paramount.
Ignore or dismiss external dogmatic beliefs, the energy vampires, the somatic bullies, the gaslighters, the projectors, the MLM pyramid sales of Unhealed "healers", those who deny other's lived experience, those who may attempt to bind you to cycles and patterns and tithes of their karma and samsara.
Once grounded in Self, these choices become simple and easy.
Beware the controllers,
Beware the projectors,
Beware those selling you what you already are.
Already Whole.
Trust and self validate this self knowledge.
Often.
Never forget who you are ever again.
Which way are you going to choose?
Simplicity?
Contentedness?
Ordinary?
Awareness?
Gratitude?
Self knowledge?
A discerning awareness of a moment to moment choice that aligns with your Own Unique Energy and Soul Journey?
Full grounded presence, here and now, front and centre showing up?
As your whole self.
Which is unconditioned love.
The freedom and beauty is;
We always get to choose our unique somatic paths.
And there are many paths home.
Several billion in fact.
One unique path for each person alive.
The Path Home Is Everywhere.
It is NOT special or rare or hidden or expensive or harsh.
It is simple, not easy.
Who chooses,
From Fullness, not lack.
Who chooses,
From wholeness, not deficit.
Who chooses,
From Love, Not For Love.
Whatever you choose,
simply trust your self, validate your Self, and
Own Your Own Self Knowledge.
And then laugh your sweet mofo ass off at the great cosmic joke.
Your Self.
Free, now, and fully human, as
Presence
To be nothing
Is to consent to being a simple creature.
This is the place of encounter with
“I AM that I Am.”
When there is no more “me, myself, or mine,”
Only “I AM” remains.
Then the “I” may fall away,
Leaving just the AM. . . .
Thomas Keating, “Out of Nothing”
