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A Whole Life  Cycles and Rises,  Falls and Spirals.  Be The Water.  Free and Fluid and Flowing  As Our Never Ending Journey Aware Receives, Accepts The Lessons We Die To A Thousand Petite Deaths  To Let Conditioned Layers Go.  Our Absolute Return To Love  A Tender, Whole and Holy Innocence The Nameless, The Divine and Kind.  Thank You Creator In This  We, Us, Ours,  All Nature's Gifts  Our True Creation.  "Grief is not something we “get over” by following pre-prescribed stages, but a partner that we dance, play, honour, argue, and weep with as the cycles unfold.  Its appearance and the ways it longs to be tended are unique for each person. The timeline for this voyage is not knowable by the psychiatric community, nor by insurance panels or teachers of spirituality, but is birthed and unfolds within the open pathways of the holy human nervous system.  To rush, force, or pathologize the experience of grief is to wo...

 Once, When A Slave To My OP Circus Coffee used like cheap grains of an inhaled glue  The Pop Corn Drug  The Quick Fix The Coin For The Slot to ward off assassin clowns lions tethered tightly,  dead, in mane lines  of tortured hunted tee pee grounds splintered bleachers squashed  a fairy floss sweet pink buzz injected rabidly  sucked, soulless, from stained paper cups brewed by silver spoons and a sweet tepid instant of a jarring, Not Enough. Now, as my cold caravan and Other People's Circus' Have Left Town coffee is home,  coffee is fika,  coffee is my full chosen cup over flowing as One daily joy a hand spun ceramic slowness sipped crafted, delighted, enchanted to simply step off the Human Hamster Wheel and see Life's Merry, Go Round,   observations as pretty frocked up people ride random tender self chosen ghost trains spin their roulette wheels, crap,  pop pills and ping pong balls in swivelling own clown mouths  or sh...

It takes one conversation to determine if a man is reactive or proactive. A man can still be a decent nice guy and be reactive, but he will suck as a life partner due to constant bad luck and poor planning. The difference between reactive and proactive is a mentality. Life happens to reactive men. Proactive men happen to life.  Reactive men are always in reaction mode. Proactive men are stocked up and prepared for storms that haven’t even occurred yet, and may never occur.  Reactive men live for today, and think about today.  Proactive men are solving problems today, for the purpose of several years down the line.  Proactive men think and plan for 5 to 100 years in the future. Whilst Living Fully In The Now.  Reactive men will shout in protest about protecting the environment, police brutality, sex Trafficking, justice system biases, political and media corruption and a million other active (and totally justified) social issues.  But it’s always during the ...

Arden Leigh  WHY IT’S IMPORTANT TO BELIEVE THE LIVED EXPERIENCES OF YOUR FRIENDS AND CLIENTS  "Recently I’ve written a couple posts about the harms of gaslighting and disbelief in the personal development community. Let’s be clear up front that the personal development community has lots of capitalist programming in it, designed to keep people purchasing coaching. In some cases the programming goes so deep that people in the community repeat it thinking they are being helpful because it’s what they’ve seen other coaches do. I’ve been speaking out lately about some of the harmful projections I’ve experienced, common tropes such as “well maybe you’re not as healed as you think you are if you’re having this problem,” “if you’re getting defensive that’s how I know I hit on something that resonates,” followed of course by “wow look at how much you’re arguing with me because you know I’m right” and “the fact that you won’t accept my gaslighting as the loving response it is shows exa...

 

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Creation   Thank you for the power of discernment, for the experience of life, for the joy of being, for the field of harmony, grace, and this deep contentment inside my heart. And beyond all this, thank you for the knowledge and unbroken experience of unity with you as the unborn and imperishable Self. Mooji White Fire 

One must not miss conference, 6 Awesome sessions including; DNA Storage: Science or Science Fiction? Improving discoverability of culture, anytime, anywhere, Connecting Stories, Language & Culture Across Country, Media Literacy in the Machine Learning Era https://t.co/5ZjKO9CchI — Tony Searl #alwayswasalwayswillbe 🖤💛❤️ (@TonySearl) November 23, 2020   Digital Directions Virtual Conference 2020 About this Event The NFSA exists at the intersection between culture, creative industries, and media. Three sectors that have been buffeted by the winds of change, as well as tectonic shifts to the digital landscape. That was true before the cataclysm of 2020, where  pivot  follows  pandemic  in frequency of use in a year that truly resets the game. And even beyond COVID-19, we find ourselves in cultural watershed of truly epic proportions, as deep fakes enter consumer grade entertainment (Avengers Assemble!), and  Digital Dexterity  leaps from buzzword to ...

"To be ALIVE and to choose LIFE at each and every moment ... is what all living beings were created for. As we witness humans all over the globe getting on their knees bowing down to control systems, submitting the remnants of freedom to delusional promises of “safety” of own false identities, more than ever we must choose to be ALIVE, truly alive ...  Now is the “time” to obliterate all bogus loyalty contracts to anyone/anything that is not INCREASING our LIFE, our CALIBER, our POTENCY, our PROVISION to thrive and be powerful to STAND in our GOD SOVEREIGN FREE presence.  Be who you want to be.  Go where you wish to go.  EMBODY the male/female polarities you wish to experience and OBLITERATE all nonsense probabilities of lack. It is an act of self treason to keep looping in cycles with anything/anyone that is not a mirror of own highest calibre, this treason is what shackles life, suffocates it ... till it’s out of own being, till one is brought to slavery, shackled ...

 

"What does it look like to decolonize branding?  What does it look like to reimagine what is possible beyond the systems we know and have been conditioned to trust? How may we reclaim the use of our voices in the marketplace?  The use of design?  Creative process?  Artfulness?  Curiosity? Market Research might be the blandest, most bleached term in marketing, but what would it look like to centre the community we craft our medicine for?  To ask questions?  What of their fears?  Their needs?  Their experiences? It is inherently colonial to force-feed culture and assume we know what’s best (aesthetically and functionally) for those we say we serve.  It is inherently colonial to accept what a homogenous group of aesthetes say is “good”. As we’re innovating, designing, crafting, and making... How do we merge the creatives instinct with a community’s possibilities?  How do come out caring?  How do we show up sustainably? What does i...

"If I'm solid in my Masculine Core, then my feminine shell can be - and will be - a natural expression of this solidity. If I haven't a clue about my Masculine Core, then the more feminine I become, the more terrified of my Masculine Core I become.   Because: The Masculine Core is death for a male. It's how he becomes a Man. It's his rite of passage." Masculine core individuation Listens, Feels and Meets energy where it is at. From Moment To Moment.  Grace and Compassion. Compassion and Grace. Kind and Aligned. Aligned and Kind.  Has Cleared his inherited conditioning. From wherever it came.  We all have it. Just Do It. Just Stop It. Simple and Easy.  Capacity To Hold concurrent paradox. Listen. Listen. Listen.  In The Moment.  (Has Moved Through The Many Deaths of The Descent and is at peace with his past) Solid, unwavering, simple single pointed, potently grounded. Here and Now. Front and Centre.  Connected To Source, Replenishment and discernme...

"We have light and we have dark inside, like two wolves.  You can't starve one and feed the other or the one that is starved will hunt you for all time and be your downfall. Each "wolf" contains valuable characteristics that are WORTHY and both need to be tended to if we are to know peace in the world.  To know peace in the world, there has to first be peace within, contentment and integration between both sides. It can no longer be about "this" vs. "that." "This" vs "That" is an old (patriarchal) thought paradigm that we needed for a while to understand aspects of this world and to build a container for experience.  But we are wiser now and have developed better tools, that to stay stuck in this mentality "this" vs. "that" will stunt you.  It MUST be an embracing of both concepts, because only when we understand the full gamut of Sacred tools we've been given here, can we then apply that outside to the ...

We attract what we need, not want.  "As a visionary and free thinker you will always have radical ideas that don’t make sense to the collective. Especially to those who feel attached to their old identity, stories and paradigms. (in business or life) Learn to look for confirmation through signs and synchronicity rather than approval. Your power as an visionary lies in your ability to observe old systems long enough to learn what isn’t working without dwelling there. Change happens when we shift our consciousness to focus our creative energy on solutions". Beyond The Immediate Now,  Beyond the "normal collective" Free Bigger Wave Surfing and con currently Creating this next wave in an aligned community Beyond TTWWADI ("That's The Way We've Always Done It") Beyond Current Platforms Problems or Prohibitors.  Beyond staid, stuck and unnecessary red tape constraints of "old business models"  We have been in the fully digital world for over 30 ...

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Tony Searl · L U N C H T I M E S E S S I O N S "We live in a gendered world where we are bombarded with messages about sex and gender.  On a daily basis we face deeply ingrained beliefs that your sex determines your skills and preferences, from toys and colours to career choice and salaries.  But what does this constant gendering mean for our thoughts, decisions and behaviour?  And what does it mean for our brains? Drawing on her work as a professor of cognitive neuroimaging, Gina Rippon unpacks the stereotypes that bombard us from our earliest moments and shows how these messages mould our ideas of ourselves and even shape our brains. By exploring new, cutting-edge neuroscience, Rippon urges us to move beyond a binary view of our brains and instead to see these complex organs as highly individualised, profoundly adaptable, and full of unbounded potential." "As a result of their broad experience on the world stage in politics, economics and global not-for-profits, Ngoz...

"As the computer and the robot are taking over the activities of thought we have only these two choices: either pursuing pleasure, entertainment, or entering into the whole psychological world and see how far, how deeply one can go into it.   So, if we can take the journey together, we will walk together into the world which are the senses, sensory perceptions, desire, will, fear, pleasure, sorrow, that is the psychological world in which we live, and together let us explore it and find out how deeply, and how far we can go into it.   That is the only choice you have.   Please realise this, either entertainment of various kinds or this entering into the psychological world which is the whole movement inwardly projected by thought, the 'me', my desires, my pursuits, my ambition, the competition, the vanity, the hypocrisy, the habits we fall into, sexual, drink, various kinds of habits, all that is the psychological world in which we live and without understanding that you ...

"Relationship based on mutual need brings only conflict.  However interdependent we are on each other, we are using each other for a purpose, for an end.  With an end in view, relationship is not.  You may use me and I may use you.  In this usage, we lose contact.  A society based on mutual usage is the foundation of violence.  When we use another, we have only the picture of the end to be gained.  The end, the gain, prevents relationship, communion.  In the usage of another, however gratifying and comforting it may be, there is always fear.  To avoid this fear, we must then possess.  From this possession there arises envy, suspicion and constant chaos and conflict.  Such a relationship can never bring about happiness.⁠⁠ A society whose structure is based on mere need, whether physiological or psychological, breeds conflict, confusion and misery.  Society is the projection of yourself in relation with another, in which the need...

"In the midst of the common, the worldly, the mundane, is the ineffable One. Knowing this, one lives happily throughout all states. This is the secret that only the sage knows and enjoys and reveals to those whose time has come to flower into divine understanding."  Mooji "trees that are tall have deep roots"  "The Golden Eternity" ~ of Sandy Salty Aussie Cossie Bottoms ... errgggh brainpicker · Amanda Palmer reads "When I Am Among the Trees" by Mary Oliver

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