Even when others can’t see us clearly.

Grace Gratitude Humility ~ Thank You A Simple, Clear True Nature SSY

When you set healthy boundaries or refuse to be the energy supply for people who feel entitled to you, just remember, you will be seen as the problem. 

They are so used to codependency that healthy boundaries will feel to them like you lack empathy & compassion or just don’t care. 

That’s the way their internal systems will code the experience.

The pattern of getting confused, dysregulated and overwhelmed by others emotional reactions to you prioritizing your own needs. Which results in second guessing yourself and not being able to maintain or enforce your boundaries. That will need to eventually be addressed.
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This is where many get confused about what empathy actually is. 

When you merge with another and lose a sense of individuation, you take on their feelings as your own. 

This has to be addressed in the nervous system and subtle body, not just mentally
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When we run false mental pictures of what empathy, compassion and caring is, it’s easy to have our desire to do the right thing be taken advantage of. 

But when we understand them from an embodied place, we know them by how they feel. 

Even when others can’t see us clearly.
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Setting energetic boundaries helps us to attune to clarity, truth, and well being so we can be authentic to who we are. 

It is about not enmeshing, not merging and not allowing other people’s thoughts, emotions, judgements or projections into our field.