Why So Serious? Laughter Remains The Best Medicine. Self First and Often. Even If The Feeling Is Intense, Hold It Lightly. Let It Go,. And Be Grateful For The New Found Humour In The Lesson.

"If I'm solid in my Masculine Core, then my feminine shell can be - and will be - a natural expression of this solidity.

If I haven't a clue about my Masculine Core, then the more feminine I become, the more terrified of my Masculine Core I become. 

Because:

The Masculine Core is death for a male.

It's how he becomes a Man.

It's his rite of passage."

Masculine core individuation

Listens, Feels and Meets energy where it is at. From Moment To Moment. 

Grace and Compassion. Compassion and Grace. Kind and Aligned. Aligned and Kind. 

Has Cleared his inherited conditioning. From wherever it came. 

We all have it. Just Do It. Just Stop It. Simple and Easy. 

Capacity To Hold concurrent paradox. Listen. Listen. Listen. 

In The Moment. 

(Has Moved Through The Many Deaths of The Descent and is at peace with his past)

Solid, unwavering, simple single pointed, potently grounded. Here and Now. Front and Centre. 

Connected To Source, Replenishment and discernment Comes From Aware Fullness, Not Any Lack. 

Chooses To Be

Hopelessly Devoted To One Beloved, 

Full commitment with full freedom. 

Intimate, Potent, Open, Alive.

To Be. Is To Do. Refuses emasculation or any control.   

Allows Space For All To Be Their Unique Sovereign Self. No Limits, with kindness. 

Allows Space for Those already doing so for them self. No Limits, always with potent kindness. 

Takes No Crap. Ever. 

Calls Out Crap. His Own. And Yours. 

Loves His God, Him Self. First. 

Leads By Following. Listens. Feels and attunes. Without Loss. Or degradation. To The Energy. 

Dances with those already On The Dance Floor. Shakes Booty, His Own. Never Waits. Or Hates. 

Loves Her God. As Her Self. As Is. No veils. No Reason. No Cause. 

Other wise, It is Not, Love. 

But a Fuck Buddy Lust, 

A surface soother, an addiction to using another for pacifying pleasure, 

The Dummy You Suck. To Go Back To Sleep. 

A Projection from small child impatience of immediate gratification. "U want it Now!, mummy" 

To press the dopamine buttons and use the remote on line sale controls to hear the bells of the next salivating fog. 

Pavlov WOULD be proud. Woof. 

To sooth The still unhealed "lolly shop sugar hit" or I chuck a tantrum, mum. 12 step program? 

Or use another as an insecure Need to not be alone. Co=dependence Because YOU scare the shit out of YOUR self, Still. Maybe just a simple unawareness? Maybe a mutual convenience? 

Energy is The Same. 

A Projection from a deficit, from a lack. There is still a leak in that fucket bucket, dear liza, dear liza...

Or a Small child Greed to own and control and possess and accumulate and buy and gorge. 

ALL the lollies he or she did not have or was not allowed when young, a deficut model, a lack of not enoughness so NOW they compensate as adults by accumulating "status" or "safety" or "comfort" or more, more, more. To hopefully ONE DAY projected into The Future, not now in the presence, To Be Enough. One Day...)  . 

To Own and accumulate and control and sell all Of The Trees or Coal or Natural Earth Resources 

(or buy MORE Homes or faster Cars or sweeter lollies of childhood that you didn't control or have....) 

Another Projection from deficit conditioning, from a lack of not enoughness.  

All Relatively Ok. 

With mutual consent. 

This is not about seed spreading lotharios or open wide come inside slut shaming or extractive rampant destructive capitalism or a Papal CEO Churchy moralistic sin. 

It is about Mirrors of Response, Ability, and Account Ability.  Slow The Fuck Down and Just Stop It. 

Step Off The Human Hamster Wheel and Contemplate, Meditate, Masticate and Chew It Over, 

Chew Over Patterns of Repetition 

Own Your Habits and Choices of Change and Growth and Discernment  

Chew Them Over. Ever So Slowly. Mindfully with an open Heart. 

Reflect, rest, remember, and rise. Repeat The Cycle. Daily if not even more often.  

(with way more mother and father wound and trauma and conditioning work still to do ....)  

As she is also zero point, neutral and without veils or manipulation. 

Retains and contains vitality, discerningly shares with a mutually receptive alignment. 

Capacity To Increase The Dose, Of Love, when and as needed. 

Repeats as needed (or regularly), which ever comes first.

Does not run around looking for souls to save or people to preach to. 

Remains Self Contained in Self Knowledge.

Listens, Shares, Speaks Humbly and Fully without arrogance or pretence.  

Road Trip, Music, Dance, Laugh, Cry, ShiFt Happens and Then Cooks The Tacos. 

Enjoy Life, Lovers.