To Those Who Choose The Path of Conscious Parenthood And The Children Created By It, Here Are Some Beautiful Reminders.
"Perhaps if angry little girls were heard instead of silenced,
there wouldn’t be so many hurting women struggling to
understand and love themselves.
Perhaps if tearful little boys were comforted instead of shamed,
there wouldn’t be so many angry men struggling
to express and empathize with emotion.
And vice versa.
Perhaps if vulnerable children were protected instead of exploited,
there wouldn’t be so many armoured people struggling to be connected and authentic.
Children need to feel all their emotions without fear of rejection or pressure to protect a parent to mature into their healthiest true self.
Being hard on children does not make them stronger.
People are strengthened through compassion and understanding,
regardless of gender or age."
Attuned Parenting Course.
@Synergy Parenting
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No one ever "wants" that bad relationship, especially ones that then co create children (unless it was a "bad" choice or it turned "bad" back then because the True Self was not yet able to choose otherwise) Parents are always (hopefully) Doing Their Best Not To Possess and Control and Raise a Child As A "Mini Me." But To Instead, Eventually Raise an Aligned and Kind Inter Dependent Whole Human Being. Parents consciously learn not to pass onto your children any adult unhealed patterns. Parents, do the inner work to raise and heal any past patterns so you may now raise a whole un traumatised child. Parents are always doing your conscious best, we trust for your own good, your child's best interests and the greater good, do your best not to pass on any remaining harsh family of origin inherited conditioning or inter generational wounding. Parents, draw a self compassionate, gentle and kind line in the sand and remind your self on the daily, "Any Inherited Trauma and past patterns, (That I Am Now aware of) Any Mother or Father or Family of Origin Wounds (that I Am Now aware of) Any Unhelpful Childhood Conditioning, (that I Am Now aware of) Any Adult Ego Control Issues, (that I Am Now aware of) Any Adult Unhealed Addictions and Patterns of Self Abuse or Harshness, (that I Am Now aware of) Any Adult Not Enough Stories, (that I Am Now aware of) Now Stops With Me." "I choose NOT to pass these on to children by being kind and compassionate and aware and accepting of My True Self, Firstly." Parents, those awesome people gifted the co creations, your children, Parents of the world's most precious gifts, our children, Parents are fulfilling the most important role in parenting their children well. Parents, like all of us are always doing our best and when we reveal more When we know better, When we learn better, we can then simply Be Better. Parents, like all of us, take nothing personally, (especially any negative self talk or other people's projections, Hurt People, Hurt People. Please Don't Traumatise or Unconsciously Condition Children) Parents, draw that self compassionate line, that gentle and kind line in the sand and simply repeat with conscious intent, "No More Wounded Dears" |
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